At Carroll Hospital, we are fortunate to have three hospital-based peers and one community Overdose Survivors Outreach Program (OSOP) peer. Mike, Megan, Scott and I have our own unique story of how addiction and/or mental health took control of our lives and how we overcame those struggles.
Peers use their mental health and substance use experiences to relate to individuals and let them know we understand what they are going through. Using our own experience, we provide insight, empathy and encouragement to those navigating their recovery. We advocate for individuals and help them advocate for themselves.
As a peer, we not only provide support, but also help individuals find appropriate community services and resources. From my own personal experience, I know how difficult it can be to research and discover all the available resources in our community. Having a peer who knows and understands this information can be very beneficial to a person trying to get help and they don’t know where to begin.
Recovery does not look the same for everyone. The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration defines recovery as: “A process of change through which individuals improve their health and wellness, live a self-directed life, and strive to reach their full potential.” While some people practice full abstinence from substances, others practice harm reduction. We are there to support and meet people wherever they are in their personal journey.
To be honest, our job can be frustrating at times. We want individuals to find the peace we have found in our own recovery. We’ve all had to learn that we cannot force someone to get clean and sober; we can only be an example and stand by their side. They must be the ones to do it for themselves. Everyone has their own rock bottom, and we never know when and what that will be. No matter how many times we see someone, we remind ourselves that if they are still breathing there is hope.
While our job can be frustrating, it is one of the most rewarding jobs I’ve ever had. As hospital peers we see individuals in their most vulnerable state. Being available and supportive and offering guidance gives us the opportunity to see the recovery process take place. We have seen individuals go from a state of crisis to a state of recovery.
Peer recovery coaches are helping to reduce the stigma associated with addiction and mental health issues. We share our stories — the good parts and the bad parts. We let people know they are not alone and do not have to suffer in silence. We offer hope to the hopeless and show that recovery is possible.
Margie Neighoff, CPRS, is the OSOP/Community Peer at Carroll Hospital. Call 410-871-7000 for more information about the Peer Recovery Program.
